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But attraction and compatibility are physical components, too, and they are impossible to determine until you meet in person.
There are a multitude of signals and signs that dictate who we are and aren’t attracted to – many of which we aren’t consciously aware of.
You weren’t required to see them again; you didn’t dig them and that was the end of that.
If you were to get a second date with someone and realize that you weren’t actually into them and decide not to see them again, then you would be dictating terms there, too. You can take all of five seconds to read through Buzzfeed listicles about women’s dating woes to realize that they’re dealing with the same bullshit you are.
You dictated the terms of the relationship with the two – or three – women you didn’t want a second date from.When we see people in person, we process those signs and signals so quickly that we don’t realize that we’ve gone through a checklist. Your attitude literally bleeds into everything you do, in ways that you don’t think about.We just know “Yes, I’m attracted to that person” or “No, I’m not”. An amazing actor can pull this off for a little while. It affects how you talk to people, the way you perceive the world and how you interact with it. And like Binary Sunset, this is a theme that’s going to be recurring throughout your letter.So, I’m going to break in here right at the start: this is a good thing to recognize in yourself.Realizing that you’re holding on to negative, self-limiting beliefs is an important step in overcoming them. Physically attractive, tall and fit, non smoker, social drinker, intelligent (masters qualified), undertaking a career that corresponds with my education level, and cultured, with a strong interest in many of the arts, along with active competition in sport (i’m a cyclist) to a high amateur level.