Warning signs that youre dating a loser
You deserve more, so much more, and I pray you know how deeply you are loved.
I can’t say much about my history with this subject, but I understand what you are going through and I promise it won’t be easy to cut ties, but I also promise you’ll never regret it.
” “One of these days you’ll wake up, and I’ll be gone.” “You don’t know the first thing about finances.” “You are such a b%&*—it’s a wonder I put up with you.” “I want you to stay home, so I can keep an eye on you.” Arguably, the most detrimental aspect of emotional abuse is women who are being emotionally abused feel trapped, and they tend to internalize their partners abuse.
They believe if they change how they behave, speak, dress, socialize, and work, then their partner will stop criticizing them or flying into rages.
For one friend it looked like her boyfriend loved her so much he wanted to know where she was at all times.
For another, a kind man who just wanted to take stress off his girlfriend (asking her to quit her job & stay home).
He wants you to think that you are the problem—but I hope you find an ounce of courage to talk to someone today.No, the truth is that inside you know you won't change him, and that's actually fine with you because you subconsciously fear a deep relationship.2. Find what makes you happy What this really means is that they're looking for dysfunction so that they have the drama in their lives that they subconsciously crave.It may stem from a variety of sources but the end result is that you will wind up with exactly what you're looking for, a real project. If your self-talk sounds something like "I'm such a mess" or "why am I so insecure sometimes?If you find that you're often trying to change something about yourself thinking it will make you more attractive to the guy you just met, then you are, like I was, lacking in self-esteem and confidence in yourself.Don't be too hard on yourself, this is very common but it means that you need to work on finding and loving the real you before trying to love someone else. Right does walk into your life, you'll both be in the right state of mind, in the right place, at the right time. Jane Garapick is a Dating Coach who knows firsthand what it’s like to have a broken heart, a broken dream and a broken you.